Moon walk memory: July 20, 1969

On this very evening, 53 years ago, two men walked on the surface of the moon for the very first time.
I was 11 years old, and a camper at Camp Mar-Ven in Wellfleet, Massachusetts, on Cape Cod.

The significance of the event was lost on us pre-pubescent youth, but we knew it must have been one of those “important events that we will always look back on and remember where we were”, because all of the campers were let out of our bunks, at what should have been “lights out”, and we were ushered in to the rec hall, each wearing our pjs, where a tiny black-and-white TV had been set up. The reception was so poor that someone had to stand next to the TV and continuously adjust the “rabbit ears” that served as the television’s antenna.

Campers and staff alike sat cross-legged, or sprawled, across the floor, in rapt attention of the event that was before us. I remember several of the campers and counselors and staff members. My cabin was particularly challenging, with juvenile delinquent Mitch, obese and bullied David, sensitive me, and my best friend, Doug, on whom I secretly had a crush, even though I was “dating” his 10-year old cousin, Karen. My bunk’s CIT (counselor-in-training), Jimmy, would comb his pubic hair in front of us. Which was bizarre, but, of course, pretty impressive to an 11-year old gay boy in-the-making, who was just beginnng to sprout hair in the proud places.

What I remember most about that night in 1969 was not the moon landing itself, but of many of the details surrounding our special dispensation to stay up late. Huddled around the tv screen, like 1920s hobos around a garbage can fire, we campers, boys and girls, ages 9-15, shared a sense of camaraderie that night. We didn’t know WHY it was special, but we knew it was special, because we were allowed to stay up late.

And when the broadcast was over, and we all ambled back to our respective cabins – sleepy, yet somehow wiser in the knowledge of life beyond Earth, we knew that nothing would ever be the same again, and that tomorrow would be a more knowing, and less naive, day than today had been.

It was the dawning of the Space Age. And now our horizons were so much broader, and our responsibilities so much greater, than those on just this planet.

Of course, none of thus knew that then. Tomorrow would be volleyball, and arts & crafts, and play rehearsal, and color wars. And we would go back to picking on some, and idolizing others.

Life, for a bunch of campers on Cape Cod, would go on just as it had been going on all summer. And tomorrow would be another day.

The earth kept spinning. Yet everything had changed.

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10 Responses to Moon walk memory: July 20, 1969

  1. Bill says:

    Love this. I don’t have a camp experience as I do not have a ‘going away to college experience’ (Mom was very strict about my NOT going away!!!)Thanks for sharing this Bruce.


  2. Harry says:

    Love it, Bruce. Thanks for capturing so perfectly that momentous moment.
    I had just graduated from college and was living in Seattle where things were certainly abuzz. NASA had a big footprint there this day. Had to get up early in the morning for that one and watched every minute. It was big day and life didn’t change that much. Went to work and carried on…….


  3. bdwardbos says:

    Thanks, Bill! Hope you’re well and staying cool. 😎


  4. Hammer, Cheryl says:

    Lovely article. Yes I remember that and watched it on network TV. I realize now, as a true adult (in years), how astonishing a work of science, creativity and vision it was. I hope you are well and keeping comfortable in this heat. Take care and let me know if I can help with anything. With all best regards.

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  5. Jim Whitney says:

    Was searching for info on Camp Mar-Ven and came across your post. Brought back many memories…I was your bunk councilor that summer and remember that evening watching the moon landing. Also remember you and all the bunk mates you mentioned as well as our three day canoe trip! Nothing but fond memories.



    • bdwardbos says:

      Forgive me, for being skeptical, but if this is true – wow! May I ask: why were you searching for camp Mar-Ven? How did you come across my post? And how do you know I was in your cabin? It’s all a little odd, but I’d love to believe you. I don’t remember a three day canoe trip. Then, again, it was a long time ago. Do you remember the last name of the CIT? I mentioned – Jimmy? I do 🙂


      • Jim Whitney says:

        Have been a member of the Camp Mar-Ven Facebook page for several years and I check it from time to time. Was doing a search for a couple of names and your blog came up. If I’m correct the Doug you mentioned is Doug Coill and the Mitch was Mitch Adelson. In addition to the boys bunk, I was also hired as the music/theater director…if memory serves me we did a production of The Fantasticks. I also taught guitar and voice to interested campers. Do not recall Jimmy or David last name…but it has been over 50 years.


  6. bdwardbos says:

    Oh my goodness, yes, Doug was one of my best childhood friends from school, which is how my parents found Mar-ven. And Mitch! Well… I remember him less fondly lol. I never even thought there would be a Mar-Ven Facebook page. I will definitely check it out.
    I really discovered acting because of Mar-Ben. I wasn’t much into sports, and the theater program is really where I found a home. I don’t remember the Fantasticks, though, Perhaps that was right before or after me? I’m pretty sure that my first production there was one of the Pirates, Smee, in Peter Pan. And then the Tin Man in Wizard of Oz. And then Schroeder (where I actually played Moonlight Sonata on the piano!) In Charlie Brown.

    Would love to find out more. I have your email address. Will write, if that’s ok. I’m at

    In the meantime, I’m going to check out the Facebook page. And thank you so much for reaching out! My four years of camp brings up memories both good and bad. My first year was traumatic, since I was picked on all summer. But then I discovered the theater. and that has served in my entire life. 😎


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